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So this actually comes from a situation a person I have come to adore (an artist on da) ran into. I have kept up with this situation from the beginning.
Ironically enough, even if it has nothing to do with my life it still has to do with boys. I should just chage the name of this blog to "boy make me rant" or some shit like that.
The situation cut very short.
She sort of likes a guy. She was trying to feel out the situation and figure out if the guy liked her back and maybe ask him out for coffee, some thing casual just to get the feel of things. The boy is cute, and funny and flirts with her. He complains that all the girls at school arent single and how much that sucks.
Well she found out his has a gf today, and not because she told him, but because she read it online.

Why is it that men feel the need to not mention things like girlfriends when they are flirting with a girl, and when its obvious the girl likes him back?
I just wanna punch the guy.

And why is it something as basic and incomplete as simple light lust for a guy can turn you into tears or make you frustrated beyond belief?
I mean when I see a cute guy somewhere, and I, being the sort of person who wont go talk to you, start screaming in my head that he is fucking hott and should most definatly come talk to me, and he doesnt, I get very sad and/or frustrated?
I mean there is nothing you can do about it if the boy doesnt talk to you or choose to flirt with you even though he has a girlfriend. But knowing that, why cant girls have a thick skin to this sort of thing? Or fuck a thick skin, why cant we just keep it from not happening?



edit: Ok so it turns out the guy is single, but it still happens with other guys a lot.